Would being a swinger destroy the love you feel for your partner? can it really bring you closer together?

ok im going to out my self and my wife her but her it go's we are swingers and we are happly married for 12 years we where swingers befor we meet hell thats how we meet i do know that for must swingers we are happier and only 10 present of swinger's end up devised wich is very cool we tack the idea of an afear and all that out of marriage and we are very good friends with every one we play with what u need to do is think about things like do u get jellos if a another guy makes a comment about her or if one of her guy friends gives her a hug and do u get pissed whim she talk's to someone that u know she has sleep with if the anser is no to all of the above thin cool talk to her about it but if the answer is yes to any of the above thin get that idea out of your mind and never go anywhere near it age an